The Way To Get Physical With A Woman


When we are talking about subjects such as "relating to women", or "how to relate to women" or "Are you able to relate to women?", I often get asked about the best way to begin getting physical with a girl that you have known as a friend for awhile.

Getting physical is something which generally occurs naturally between a man and a woman over a three month period unless one or both of them is really uncomfortable on disinterested.

When a man is uncomfortable with approaching a woman for a physical relationship, the main thing which a guy can do to handle that is learn how to observe and use gradients.

What exactly are gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder that you climb to get to the top. A few guys might try to go to the top of the ladder without climbing any of the steps. And that makes the girl uncomfortable and also the guy.

A guy who is uncomfortable in this area ought to learn both how to identify gradients when women use them and how to use gradients on women.

Not all women will start at the same gradient. Some women will begin with a kiss after a first date, and proceed gradually or rapidly from there - from kissing, to making out, to petting, to heavy petting and finally to sexual relations. If a man tries to leap to the "sexual relations" stage without going through the other gradients, he might just lose the girl. Conversely, you may lose a girl as you are moving up the gradients too slowly.

Now other women won't even be up to the gradient of giving you a goodnight kiss until the seventh date. Gradients for her might be: getting to know you, talking about sexual subjects indirectly (for example commiserating about an ex-boyfriend), accidental touch (bumping into you while you go walking), purposeful little touches to your arm or leg, holding onto your arm as you walk, holding your hand, and then a goodnight kiss.

If you are uncomfortable with this area and wish to get physical with a girl, flirt with her, romance her, observe where she is on the gradients of sexual contact, then lead her up the gradients gently. So long as you don't by pass too many gradients, if she is interested, she will move up the gradients quickly or slowly depending on her personality.

If she is not interested, she probably won't move up. Try lowering the gradient and if she still doesn't budge, try talking about it. Ask her if she is interested in a relationship with you or if she only wants to be good friends.

Don't forget that most women won't go out on a "date" with you unless they are already vaguely okay with the concept of getting physical with you. Therefore you might want to clarify if you are dating or just "chilling out."

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